Abstinence in my book, also includes oral, but I can see where you are coming from when you say that you think experience is a good thing, I just don’t agree with you. But man oh man Zeris, that has to be frustrating, did you get any pleasure what so ever, in return? Or did you have to dish out all the loving, while your Well remained dry? Poor, poor, Zeris… not trying to brag or anything, seriously, but I have had the opportunity to delve into some choice nectar, but I did not fallow through, tempting but no, and now I just avoid the environment. Take a lesson from the Lobster, when a Lobster finds a mate, it is a mate for life, and if that mate were to die, the Lobster would not look for another mate but rather, it would spend the rest of its days a widower. If Julie turned out to have been telling me some hopeless romantic nonsense, just throw in the word ‘Unicorn’ in place of the word ‘Lobster’, and get over it.
Ha! Pytt, you’re a pessimist my friend, ‘probably’ leaves too little room for following-through-on-ones-principles! To be honest, I do not think it is THAT bad to sleep with someone out side of wed lock, as long as you are for sure, for sure that you are going to marry that person. My only prime gripe is giving of one self to more than one person, but people make mistakes and I am down to forgive, I mean shnaps, Esther has a son! Hehe, but she is the sweetest girly I have ever met and her kid is real cute too! :Reminiscing time: I felt so special yesterday when she told him to hold my hand and on the three of us went, strolling down the way trick or treating hand in hand. He in his little bat man outfit, she looking all sexy in black, and me feeling like part of the family, the memories.
“A psychologist? Knowing you I wouldn’t recommend it, you would probably drive yourself crazy trying to psychoanalyze yourself.” –Mr. West; History Teacher and Jerk
