Hehe, this is my first skald as well Law... I don't know if you should put TOO much faith in what I have to say
I plan on 46 battle song, 44 sword, 17 parry. (I may take sword higher I haven't quite decided yet. I might go 46/46/10).
With 46 songs I get the last damage add which is about all I can contribute to a group so that is why I am taking songs that high. Some skalds on the VN boards reccomend stopping at 44 which is the last shout. I wouldn't recommend specing any higher than 46.
There is also some debate as to how high you take your weapon spec. Because there is some benefit in taking weapon spec over 50 with + to skill items, some people recommend dumping what you don't put in songs into weapon. So if you take songs to 44 you can spec weapon to 49. Personally I feel the that the benefits of taking weapon that high are not worth the points. I'd rather be able to tank a little more effectively with the points in parry. Hope this has helped a little.
/send Sven in game. He had played skald on Andred. He may have some more pointers for you.